CONSIDERED THE RIGHT SACRIFICE

As an adult, I finally entered the age perkimpoian, and slowly I also knew this would be the answer.

Early perkimpoian, I also just like the mother, trying to keep the family unit, scrubbing pots and cleaning the floor, earnestly trying to maintain their own perkimpoian.

Strangely, I do not feel happy; and my own husband, did not seem too happy.

I thought, maybe not so clean floors, dishes are not bad, then, I diligently clean the floor again, and cook with all my heart.

However, it was, we were still not happy. .

Until one day, when I was busy cleaning the floor, my husband said: my wife, accompanied me for a moment to hear the music!

Expression was not happy with me saying: what do not see there is still half the floor yet again in a mop?

As soon as these words came out, I was lost in thought, words that are familiar to the ear, in perkimpoian my mother and father, the mother also often say that as a father.

I'm showing again perkimpoian father and mother, and repeated again in perkwinan their unhappiness.

There is some awareness appeared in my heart.

Do you want?

I stopped my work for a moment, then looked at my husband, and remembered my dad ...
He always did not get what he wants partner in perkimpoiannya,

When mother scrubbed the pot longer than with her.

Continuously working on domestic affairs, is a way of maintaining perkimpoian mother, he gave his father a house clean, but, rarely accompanied him, was busy taking care of the house, he tried on his father's love, and how this is to do the housekeeping.

And I, I'm also using my way of trying to love my husband.

I am also the same way as a mother, I seem to perkimpoian stepped into the middle of a story, two good people why not accompanied by a happy perkimpoian.

Consciousness I made my decision (choice) the same.

I stopped my work for a moment, then sat on the side of her husband, accompanied her to hear music, and from a distance, when looking at a mop on the floor as she looked at the fate.

I asked my husband: what do you need?

I need you to accompany me to hear music, a little dirty house okay-lah, I'll find a maid for you, so you can join me! my husband said.

I think you need to clean house, cook something for you, there is a washing pakianmu .... And I say once a series of things that are needed.

All this is not important! my husband said. The most I expected was that you can more often with me.

Proved in vain all the work I do, the results really shocked me.
We continue menikamti individual needs, and I realized he had also been doing a lot of work wasted, we have a ways each how to love, but instead how the two parties.